As parents, we all know how important it is for a child to be confident. As much as possible, we want our kids to have faith in their abilities. We want them to feel assured and secure in their own self-worth.
A child that is truly confident is set for future happiness, health, and success. They’re better equipped to deal with challenges and problems. They’re less likely to sabotage themselves – or others – out of frustration or peer pressure.
They’re more likely to be attentive, adaptive, and just generally more responsible.
That being said, the pressure on us – as the parents, teachers, and guardians – is pretty real. We are one of the key factors in developing a child’s confidence. Kids will look to the people they trust for guidance and reassurance.
So with all that in mind, here are seven tips on how to build confidence in kids.
Encourage Constant, Consistent Practice
Whatever hobby, game, or activity your child shows interest in, encourage them to keep practicing! If they seem to enjoy swimming, ask them if they’d like weekend classes. If they show an affinity for the kitchen, see if they’d like to try an Easy-Bake Oven.
If they express interest in computer programming or coding, see if there are supplementary lessons for them to enroll in.
Wholeheartedly supporting your child’s desire to get better at something can make them feel secure in their decision to pursue their goals. Plus, their confidence will definitely skyrocket once they notice their own improvement.
But make sure you don’t go overboard!
Pressuring them to keep practicing when they don’t want to may have the opposite effect. They may end up tying their self-worth to their craft. This can lead to dangerous beliefs that they’re only worthy of praise when they’re successful.
